Decluttering With Kids: Strategies That Actually Work
Because “Just Toss It While They’re Sleeping” Doesn’t Build Trust
5/20/20251 min read
Decluttering is hard enough on your own; add kids, and it becomes a whole different challenge.
Suddenly, every broken crayon is “special,” every outgrown shirt is their “favorite,” and every toy you hide ends up back in the rotation by morning.
So… should you declutter for them, or with them? The answer: with, but gently.
Kids are still learning how to let go, how to make decisions, how to trust that releasing one thing won’t mean losing everything. That’s a big emotional leap. And it’s why decluttering with kids isn’t just about stuff—it’s about connection, consent, and learning to make space together.
🧡 Try These Gentle Strategies:
Start with shared spaces so kids don’t feel personally targeted
Use visual containers (“This shelf is for your favorite 5 toys”)
Offer limited choices (“Would you like to keep 3 or 5 of these?”)
Invite storytelling (“What do you love about this? Should we keep it or pass it on to someone else?”)
Model letting go yourself, they’re always watching
Decluttering can be a powerful bonding experience if we approach it with patience and respect.
✨ Want help starting the conversation? My Stuff Talk Cards and Partner Harmony Toolkit were made for this kind of dialogue—no shame, just shared understanding.
Because kids don’t need a clutter-free home. They need a home that feels calm, safe, and full of meaning.
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